Thursday, July 30, 2009

So, I have finished the grants (for the moment), I have been on a wonderful vacation with Chick to visit my brother and his family in Hawaii. Now I am back home and the world keeps going and I really want to get off.

Chick had band camp this week. Notice the past tense? With the heat index as high as it is in the southwest, even at higher elevations and locations that are normally pretty mild in the summer, the temperatures are soaring. The band camp is brutal. Lots and lots of marching (not a problem on a whole). Chick called me totally hysterical one night. Maybe that isn't the correct word, but very upset, crying, she was sick. They had spent 10+ hours outside in 90+ degree heat. Some of it working on their routine on a parking lot. They were told they it was mandatory for them to go to a social function and were not allowed to go back to the rooms to sleep until after 11:00. They had to be up by 6:00. These are teenagers who required 9 hours of sleep a night. She was exhausted, heat sick. I spent Tuesday trying to calm her down enough to get her to take a cool shower and hydrate herself. Two of the kids went home sick. She wanted to come home, I wanted her to stick it out. She spent the evening vomiting. The "nurse" on call went to check her and her friend (who was also sick). She told them she would bring them some crackers and gatorade and never came back to the room. She checked on them Wednesday morning (another night filled with sickness) and said it was their decision to call their parents. I had already been in contact with Chick and was heading up to pick her up. I got a call about an hour from the camp and was asked if I could bring her friend home as well. It is a 4 hour drive away from home. Two sick girls in the car, both slept most of the way. We stopped and got them something to drink and eat since they were both afraid to eat anything for almost 2 days. Better to have something in their stomachs. They ate and slept. Chick is feeling much better this morning. She now has to do a camp here in town. 100+ heat, but they do use air conditioned buildings for some of the events. And I am just down the road and will be checking in frequently.

I did some research. Did you know the military has a chart that shows how long you are allowed to make soldiers work outside? For moderate activity in the temperatures at the band camp, they should have been active for 20 minutes and rest, in the shade for 40 minutes. They were going for 2 hours with a 10 minute break at the end. I was told they are allowed to stop when they need to, etc. Chick did. But she was still overheated and got sick. The "nurse" told me they had a number of kids under the medical tent who were sick. When I called to talk to her the day before I went up, she couldn't even remember which one Chick was. When Chick went back to the room with the other sick kids, they were left alone, while all the other chaperones went out to the field. No one came to check on them. The girls had their cell phones and the "nurse" was just a phone call away, but it took them 10-15 minutes to get back to the rooms. Where was the adult with the sick kids? Granted they are teenagers (13-17), and are for the most part self-reliant, but they were sick, vomiting, dehydrated. For some of these kids (mine included) this was the first time they were that far away from their parents without an adult to "take care" of them.

I called the school, no answer. I called the superintendent, spoke to the admin person, and got the band director is wonderful, there have never been any problems before, blah blah. I am sure she is great. Chick said she never saw her. The BD was working with the band, not the colorguard. The "nurse" and other "chaperones" were too busy watching the marching, rather than taking care of the kids. The school finally called back and wanted to know if I had been in touch with Chick. Yup, I had been home from picking her up for an hour already. It was suggested I write a note to BD and principal to let them know my concerns. You bet they will be getting a letter. I know that this is not going to be an issue during the school year because of the nature of the schedule. That isn't the issue, the issue was the lack of supervision, the lack of concern for sick kids, I never got a phone call from an adult! They were more interested in getting the room keys back from the girls rather than asking how they were. No one had seen or talked to them for hours before I picked them up!

And how is this for causing more stress? Ric has been accused of robbing a bank in town. Someone saw the picture of the bank robber on tv and called the tip line saying it looked like Ric. Ric wasn't in town. We can prove it. The police showed up at my door at 11:30 on a Saturday night. Woke us up. Now they want a DNA test done. We have nothing to hide. He is willing to submit to one, but what we don't understand is do they actually have the DNA of the bank robber? Is this going to eliminate him or are they just trying to build case? We have a friend who is a criminal lawyer, but he is out of state for a couple of weeks. I have a cousin-in-law (is that even a word? the man married to my cousin) is a lawyer. Not a criminal lawyer, but my aunt suggested we talk to him for some advice. I have sent him an email and hopefully he will call either one of us. Ric hasn't even been in town since the end of June. He hasn't been west of El Paso.

The past couple of days have been very difficult. My heart is heavy. I am worried what this year is going to bring. Last year cancer, this year fighting for his freedom?




Friday, June 5, 2009

Update

I know I have been lax in writing on my blog. Things here have not been easy. A few weeks ago my sister had her mammogram and she had to go back and get a biopsy. Thankfully it came back negative. I went for mine and had to go back and get a second one and now have to go back in six months to check on an area. No biopsy yet, but I can't rule it out.

I think I mentioned my sister-in-law is pregnant with a little girl who will be born September 16 (she is having a scheduled c-section because of her MS). Little Emma Lynn (I still prefer the middle name of Sue) has a cleft lip. The have done some testing and that seems to be her only issue. I was told today on a scale of 1-10 (10 being the worst) her cleft is about a 1.5 so that is great news. When I am in Hawaii, there is another scheduled ultrasound so I will get to see my newest niece then. I am excited.

My sister's family has all been sick this past week with a stomach virus. The girls, Tink and Princess, both had tubes put in their ears this morning. Hopefully we will have less ear infections to deal with.

My brother-in-law, Brent, is in the hospital with Shingles. What started out as what was thought as pink eye, then a scratched cornea, is really shingles. The upper right side of his face is affected. So he is in the hospital in a lot of pain and on IV antibiotics. He will be in the hospital for a few more days. My sister is worried about Princess since she has not been vaccinated and we don't know is she was exposed while she was in the orphanage. At this point she is expecting her to come down with Chicken Pox.

Ric's niece had a scare this week and had to go to Houston to MD Anderson to get a second opinion. She has brain cancer. This has been going on for a couple of years and we were thankful when the original tumor was removed and she did her chemo and such. Unfortunately, the surgery was not successful in removing all of the cancer so she still has to get checked frequently. It was a huge concern when she was pregnant with her little boy who is about 9 months now. Well, she had a regular scan that showed growth. She went for a second opinion and was told there is no new growth and there is no need for any surgery, chemo, or radiation.

I broke a tooth the other day (although I didn't know I broke it, I just thought the filling that I've had trouble with in the past came loose). So I went to the dentist twice yesterday, once to get it "fixed" at least temporarily, and the other because once the novacaine wore off, I was in so much pain the over the counter meds weren't working. They numbed me up again, removed the temporary which if given time will come loose on it's own so you can put the permanent in. Not so much on the day it was placed. We started out without novacaine. That didn't last long. I received T3s for pain management. Yeah, didn't touch much of the pain. Just made me drowsy and sick. Who knew I couldn't handle codeine? So I spent most of the night sick and in pain. Today I have slept off and on all day and I can manage the pain with ibuprofen for now.

The puppies are doing very well, but are a handful. Chick is taking one to her dad's house, one is going to a good friend of ours in El Paso and finally, the best news, my mom is taking one (who just happens to be my favorite guy). It is so difficult to deal with six dogs (three of whom are puppies), but they are so much fun. I am going to miss them when they are gone. Jenna will be fixed in a few weeks so we don't have to deal with this again....

Ric is doing well in regard to his health. Still no weight gain to speak of, but at least he is back to work part time. He still gets really tired very easily.

So with all that has been going on here and at work with my heavy work load, I am lucky to get on to check the email and other blogs. (I do still read them). Right now things are a bit rocky with Ric and I. I know that we will work things out, but it is stressful for both of us.

So it has been a really crappy few weeks. Although my aunt surprised us and came down for our birthday a couple of weeks ago and for Chick's graduation and confirmation. What a great surprise!

I will try to post more often, but the work load is still way up there. Only 29 days until Chick and I head to Hawaii for a much needed vacation. I am so looking forward to it.





Wednesday, May 20, 2009

Lots of stuff going on... some good, some not so good. It will be a while before I can talk about some things.

In other news:

I turn 40 on Saturday. 40! I still feel 21. It can't be.

Chick is graduating from middle school next week. The mom to a high schooler! Aaahhhh!

Chick is also going through Confirmation at our church on Sunday.

My parents are having a party on Saturday to celebrate the month...
May 3 - My aunt's birthday
May 5 - Princess's 2nd birthday
May 10 - My brother and cousin's birthday (although my brother won't be there)
May 14 - My dad's birthday
May 23 - My sister and my birthday
May 24 - Chick's confirmation
May 27 - Chick's graduation
May 30 - Carolyn and Brent's anniversary

May is always a busy month...

The puppies are growing like crazy! They are 4 weeks old and over 5 pounds. I can't weigh them on the little scale anymore. It only goes to 5 pounds, and the regular scale isn't very accurate, especially with wiggly little guys.

I have put out 7 grants in the last month and have 3 more lined up. Tomorrow will be an exceptionally busy day, getting one out. The other 2, well, they aren't even started yet. My life revolves around grants...

I don't want to go into the "not so good" issues right now until I get more information. Hopefully I am making the issue more than it needs to be. Just know that good thoughts could be sent my family's way.







Sunday, May 3, 2009

Puppies!


Chick and DiNozzo

McGee

My favorite, Jethro

DiNozzo and Jethro taking a snooze


They are two weeks old and weigh 3 pounds, each.... They are going to be big boys. McGee's eyes started opening tonight and they are starting to toddle around, looking like a few drunk puppies. They are very cute. Chick is going to get to keep on at her dad's house and I think she is leaning toward DiNozzo. I am partial to Jethro who happens to be the biggest. I wish I could keep him, but three dogs is enough. I am hoping my mom and dad decide to take one and I hope it is Jethro. McGee is cute, and I am waiting to see what type of personality he has. He is definitely the fluffiest of the three. Jethro weighs the most and DiNozzo has the most interesting face.




Monday, April 20, 2009

The latest at my house...

Pictures will be posted at a later date.

We have puppies. Jenna got "knocked up". I was so very angry that my hubby didn't take responsibility for his dog and have her fixed. She is 9 years old. She had four puppies. Three of which are various shades of tan and they are huge! My Red-headed Step-Child (RHSC) is completely black and very, very small. We are thinking this little one is not going to make it. Right now we are bottle feeding it and hoping that it learns how to suckle. Its back legs and tail are also very odd looking and while it can move it's legs, it is very weak. I took pictures in to the vet today (thankfully very close to work and they are friends of mine) and was told it could still die even with the bottle feeding. So we are trying not to get too attached. Two of the older dogs (Oreo and Edie) have to go on Thursday for check ups and vaccinations so I told them I would bring RHSC in with me since we will most likely be bottle feeding most of the time. Jenna doesn't seem to mind that the little one is not there. She was being a good mama to it and washing it and nudging it up to eat, but it didn't have the strength.

So, anyone want a puppy? Chick has already picked one (if it is a girl) to have at her dad's house, he has approved. I am not sure I do, because of his other dog, but if it means she can keep one and I don't have to take care of it.... One of Chick's friends will probably take another. I have yet to confirm with her mother, but from what I understand. So we potentially have two available. Keeping in mind that RHSC may not survive and may be a special needs puppy. Who knows. We may end up having to keep it, but if so, I am running away... Just kidding.

Other than that, it has been business as usual. I have been extremely busy at work and am only taking a short break to share my fun news.








Wednesday, April 8, 2009

Four weeks since I posted. Ahh, the joys of life.... I am back into the major grant mode again. I have four due in 10 days. Crazy stuff here at work. Then I have two more due in May. We are preparing for our big grant due in February (we start early, this is over 500 pages of grant writing bliss). But.... I have something to look forward to. Chick and I are going to Hawaii to visit my brother and his family in July. We haven't got the tickets yet because the Boss hasn't signed my vacation request (I want three weeks, she may not want me to take that long, so I may have to cut it down to two weeks).

I spoke to my step-son today. He is in Kauai getting ready to head back to Ft. Bliss. However, he is saying he may be back in Kauai in July and is even thinking of having his lovely wife, Mattie come along. The he told me he has a friend who flies for Hawaiian Air, out of Phoenix and he is going to try to get us tickets for really cheap. Woo hoo! What a great kid. He told me today that Ric told it he had to kiss up to me today cause I was having a rough week. Plus, if he is in Hawaii when we are there, he is going to see about coming to Oahu to see the Chick and I. Ha ha, Chick will be so pleased. She loves him, but doesn't want him to know, and he picks on her, you know, the I don't like my brother/sister thing? Yeah, right!

So why is my week bad. Well, it isn't really. It is just so busy with grants, very stressful. And yesterday I forgot to take my blood pressure medicine. By 2:00 I was having a headache, and nausea, and just feeling generally terrible. I went home, took my pill and laid in bed the rest of the night. Big mistake. The pills are take are a "water" pills. I wasn't laying down enough for the blood pressure to come down. It fluctuated most of the night. And of course, I didn't get much sleep, being up and down and all. So this morning I was still not feeling 100% (only 2 hours of sleep, elevated blood pressure will do that). I took my pill this morning (probably not a good idea since it had only been 16 hours since I took the last one), but I wanted to make sure that I could take one in the morning and not have to be up and down all night. My BP is much better this afternoon (115/76), although my heart rate is on the high end of "normal" (resting is almost 80). I am just exhausted.

But, my hubby called and said, instead of having to cook and clean up this evening, he is going to take us out to dinner. Yes! The dish fairy doesn't have to come to my house tonight... oh wait, that's me. Yes! I don't have to do the dishes tonight!

So I am leaving work early again today, hoping to get back on track tomorrow.

If you don't see anything on here for awhile, it isn't that I am ignoring everyone, it is just that I am drowning in a sea of grants.... Grant Hell if you will. :)




Thursday, March 5, 2009

This wonderful friend....


went to be an angel today. Marti has been struggling with colon cancer for many years. I am very sad.